你们没有说那些显而易见的话并不重要，你们让对方感觉的方法证明了你们乐意取悦对方，拉近彼此的距离。
It doesn't matter that you don't say the obvious things. The way you make each other feel proves that you are willing to please each other and bring them closer.
两个人，会有这样的信号，不能牵强。
Two people, there will be such a signal, can not force.
不管是你从中学到的仍是从书上读到的，当你变得越来越有自知之明，你就会越来越专注于做自己，而不是和别人比较。
Whether you learn from it or read from books, when you become more and more self-aware, you will focus more and more on being yourself rather than comparing with others.
你最终会逼自己成熟，逼自己刚强。
You will eventually force yourself to be mature and strong.
生命的每一分钟都是宝贵的。当你能够享受它的时分，不要糟蹋它。
Every minute of life is precious. Don't waste it when you can enjoy it.
当然，这种活跃的医治并不是发生在每对配偶身上。
Of course, this positive treatment does not happen to every couple.
异性之间，诚心爱你的人，最舍不得这样对你。
Between the opposite sex, the people who really love you are most reluctant to do this to you.
一开始，当他忽视我的时分，我会觉得很难接受，所以我会和他交流，抱怨他。
At first, when he ignored me, I would find it difficult to accept, so I would communicate with him and complain about him.
但是现在你没有了他，你忽然觉得做任何事都没有乐趣，学习没有乐趣，工作没有乐趣，挣钱也没有乐趣。
But now you don't have him, you suddenly feel that doing anything is not fun, learning is not fun, work is not fun, and making money is not fun.
你如此自信，但实际在哪里？爱到以后，你会发现他给不了你未来。
You are so confident, but where is the reality? After love, you will find that he can't give you the future.
